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Love and basketball: Meet the couples who spent the weekend with the NBA

A man in a cap kisses a smiling woman on the cheek. They're outdoors near a large, colorful billboard displaying basketball players and text.
Anthony and Paula Williams outside of Chase Center on Valentine’s Day. | Source: Autumn DeGrazia/The Standard

The most romantic day of the year. And for some Bay Area couples, a whole lot of basketball.

Moscone Center was abuzz Friday with families, couples, and friends who had come to check out brand “activations” (Meta and other companies set up hoops in roped-off enclosures and invited visitors to shoot free throws for prizes) and catch a glimpse of NBA players like Tyler Herro and Shai Gilgeous-Alexander. For some couples, this was perfectly romantic.

Health-tech founder Justine Alcasabas wanted to bring her husband, Joseph, an artist who has done graphic design work for the Warriors, to get inspired. Friday was the fifth anniversary of their engagement, on Valentine’s Day 2020.

“It’s easy to remember,” Joseph said.

The All-Star Weekend festivities were an ideal way to celebrate for the couple, who said their wedding theme was “Bay Area love story.”

A smiling man and woman are posing. The man wears a cap and a t-shirt featuring a cartoon character and "Valkyries Basketball." The woman wears a jacket with "ROARacle Arena."
Justine and Joseph Alcasabas attend NBA Crossover at the Moscone Center. | Source: Autumn DeGrazia/The Standard

Matt and Justine Aranda, Bay Area superfans, said they do something sports-related every Valentine’s Day, but coming to All-Star Weekend was Matt’s idea.

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“I was OK with it,” Justine said, laughing.

Tech worker Thomas Hanagan did well to buy his family tickets to the Moscone event, where his kids made Funko Pops in their own likenesses. Despite being in the heart of Dub Nation, the Massachusetts native proudly wore his Boston Celtics jacket, while wife Katy and the kids wore Warriors jerseys. Katy said she and Thomas came up with the plan together.

“It’s only in the Bay Area every 25 years,” she said.

A smiling family of four is pictured wearing Golden State Warriors shirts and jerseys. They are standing closely together in a warmly lit setting.
Katy and Thomas Hanagan checked out NBA Crossover with their kids, Ryan and Gillian. | Source: Autumn DeGrazia/The Standard

Not all couples at the event were married. Some weren’t even together. San Jose State University students Quan Nguyen and Amy Ryu were actually on a first date — on Valentine’s Day. Bold move.

“I just thought it would be different,” Nguyen said. 

It seemed to be working for Ryu, who cheered him on while he shot baskets at a Michelob Ultra booth. Both students said they were excited for the NBA Slam Dunk Contest on Saturday.

Two cupcakes sit on a pizza box; one topped with chocolate and a strawberry, the other with cream and crumbs. A gray cloth with "Town" is nearby.
Cupcakes and customized Stephen Curry T-shirts outside of Chase Center. | Source: Autumn DeGrazia/The Standard

A mile east of Moscone at the Chase Center, people drifted in and out of Thrive City bars in NBA gear and hid plastic cups of beer from security out front. A man who identified himself as “Titanium” held a pizza and cupcakes with his girlfriend, HJ, who said All-Star Weekend was her idea. Titanium is a huge NBA fan, she explained. And she?

“By association,” she said. 

In any case, the prospect was compelling enough for her to bail on their previous plan (dinner at Hog Island Oyster Co. in the Ferry Building) to watch Trae Young speak. Love is powerful.

A smiling man and woman pose for a photo outside an arena displaying bright sports graphics. The man wears a colorful headwrap and jacket, the woman a hoodie.
Derek McCollins and Natasha Martinez outside of Chase Center. | Source: Autumn DeGrazia/The Standard

Derek McCollins didn’t have anything to hide about who suggested All-Star Weekend for Valentine’s Day.

“Yeah, it was me,” he said, laughing. 

But his girlfriend, Natasha Martinez, is a fan too, particularly of the WNBA’s Las Vegas Aces. 

The Richmond residents said the All-Star games had a special atmosphere.

“It was intimate,” McCollins said. “More slow-paced. You can answer her questions at something like this.”

Ted Kirven, who was on a double date with wife Camille and childhood friends, chatted with The Standard walking out of the Chase Center.

“All-Star Weekend in our hometown doesn’t come around too often,” he said. He added that his friends, Berkeley natives Darrin and Chantelle Williams, were high school sweethearts.

“No we weren’t!” Chantelle objected. Everyone laughed.

“We knew each other in high school,” Darrin said. “But she didn’t want me then.”

A smiling couple poses together in matching white outfits. The woman has long hair and wears hoop earrings. A basketball image is seen in the background.
Cynthia and Michael Ingram have been married 14 years. They decided to attend NBA Crossover at Moscone Center on Valentine's Day. | Source: Autumn DeGrazia/The Standard
A couple stands outside at night in front of a lit building with a sign reading "All-Star 2025 San Francisco Bay Area." The woman smiles at the man.
Savannah Richardson and Paul McKinsey outside Chase Center. | Source: Autumn DeGrazia/The Standard

Max Harrison-Caldwell can be reached at maxhc@sfstandard.com